Answer BOTH parts of the question in paragraph form:
First, describe one situation when you made a deposit into your PBA AND one situation when you made a withdrawal (be as specific and detailed as possible). Second, would you say that your PBA is poor or healthy overall? How do you know?
When i deposit A PBA is when I did good in a sport like wrestling or football. If in football when I got a play in right or got a tackle feel really good about because I knew that i was paying attention and not during what my coaches asking me to do. I fell really great when I do something right also in public and in school
ReplyDeleteI hear what you are saying
Deletei agree with you jake its good to pay attention
DeleteOne situation that i made a deposit into my PBA is being honest i try my very hardest to be honest to my family and friends everyday and not to say anything bad. One situation where I made a withdrawal would probably be when I break personal problems or wear myself out it seems I break personal problems a lot because if i have a promise to someone I tend to break it a lot and i wear myself out like when we are in school it seems i wear myself out a lot by being tired and not going to bed early enough.
ReplyDeleteits always good to be honest
DeleteA situation when i made a deposit into my PBA account is when this one time i got into trouble with the law and instead of just hiding it from everyone i just told my parents the truth about the situation right after it happend and they said they were proud of me for just not saying anything but telling them that what i did was wrong and i wasnt in as much trouble as i thought i would have been. one time when i made a withdrawl from my PBA account was when there was a group of us driving around and i was driving and we crashed and two people went to the hospital and were seriously injured and i just couldnt get over myself that it was my fault when everyone was saying it wasnt my fault i just kept blaming myself and i couldnt get over what i had done. i would say that i have a pretty healthy PBA there is some things i could work on like honesty or tapping into my talents or keeping promises i have a big problem with keeping promises such as if i made plans and then ditched them for someone else i have a hard problem with doing that.
ReplyDeleteI think it's cool that you're okay with talking abut that on here. Yeah, it's always good to be honest with your parents about that stuff. I learned that the hard way when I got a speeding ticket and dint tell my mom but they sent paperwork to the house and then she got mad. Not so much that I got a speeding ticket just that I didnt tell her.
DeleteOne situation where i made a deposit is when i tapped into my talents by taking pc maintenance and repair. One situation where i made a withdrawal was when i neglected my talents. This was when i probably could have fixed my grandfathers computer but didnt. I feel like have an overall positive PBA. The reasoning is because If i didnt i feel like i wouldnt feel as good about myself if it was negative.
ReplyDeleteits bad to be negative on yourself
DeleteI find that a lot of people neglect their talents, but its always good when you can figure out what they are.
DeleteI agree, it just sucks whens you haven't found what you're talents are yet.
DeleteThis one time I put a deposit into my PBA. This was when I decided I wanted to try out for cheerleading my 8th grade year so I could be a cheerleader my freshman year. I didn't have a ton of friends who were doing it but even though that kind of discouraged me I did it because I promised myself I would try. Well end of story I pushed through the pre practices and made new friends and tried out and made one of the squads. Woo! This other time I withdrew from my PBA by wearing myself out my first semester of my sophomore year when I was in multiple activities including cheer, dance, one act, fbla and I had just gotten a job. I ended up not quitting any of my activities but I missed a bit of school that year because I got so sick and run down by taking on too many things at once. FInally I would sya my PBA is healthy overall, I say this because I think the positive PBA signs apply t me more than some of the poo PBA signs. I do have some negative ones but mostly positive ones. Some of my positive ones include being not too concerned about being popular, trusting myself and being goal driven and I negative one that apply to me is that I get jealous. I suppose this one kind of goes hand in hand with the feeling inferior one. I'm glad I know which I can work on.
ReplyDeleteThat's great Alyson. I'm glad you made the team!!! And the time you got sick because you were run down. That's tough..... but it's good you didn't quit any of your activities!!! :)
DeleteA situation that I made a deposit to would have to be when I helped a little girl learn how to ride a horse. Nothing makes me happier when someone asks for my help about horses. The little girl was willing to learn which was great. She payed attention to me and everything. My mom kept telling me how people don't really want to take the time anymore and teach kids. More fun for me I guess. The way I look at it, if somebody so young wants to learn how to be like the big dogs, and wants to be just as good, give them a head start. I felt great when I had the chance to watch her first run and think that I taught her everything, One situation when I made a withdrawal would have to be when I told my little brother that I would make him food and then I didn't. The food that I was going to make him was out of date. I forgot to let him know that, so I just went on with my day. Later I found out that he bawled his eyes out to my mom because I lied and didn't make him food. I felt horrible. I then had to explain why I didn't, he didn't really understand anyways because he is little yet. I felt horrible knowing I made him cry all because I didn't make him food. I would say that my PBA is pretty healthy. I try not to be a negative person in life. I find myself very goal-driven, and I stand up for what I believe. There isn't a day that goes by that I won't let people know how I feel about something. I know this because I am always looking for the good things in life and not the bad.
ReplyDeleteA deposit i have made into my PBA would have to be when i taped into my talent and started riding bmx. One situation when i mad a withdrawal would of been when i was getting ready for my first race i had and i didn't stay true to my self about trying my best i got so tired that i couldn't keep up with the the guy in first that i just gave up and ended up loosing really bad. I would have to say that my PBA is healthy overall because i am normally a pretty happy person no matter what.
ReplyDeleteThats good that your a happy person
Delete:) i love you. If your happy im happy.
DeleteA time a made a deposit into PBA was when I stood up for myself. One day at work, the charge nurse wanted me to stay until 11pm so I could help the other aide who came in at 3 put people to bed when it came to that time. After already working 12 hours, I told her no. I've worked for 12 hours, and have plans after work. A time I had to make a withdrawal from my PBA was when my sister, Tori got to go to Europe for a couple of weeks. A teacher at school had nominated her for "People to People International." I was very jealous of her since I've done nothing really outstanding in my life. I would have to say about my PBA is that is is mostly poor. The reason for this is, I give into peer pressure quite easily. Like a friend wanted me to go out for track in junior high. I don't like running, but since she wanted me, and kind of forced me to do it, I did it. I didn't like it at all. Another reason is I get very jealous. I'm not good at Math, at all. My best friend, doesn't really like Math either, but she is very good at it. I was jealous when she passed the Algebra test, and I failed. I was upset that she succeeded.
ReplyDeleteThis is or was my last year for a few things. I "taped into" my talents this summer and the beginning of the school your. This was my last summer for 4-H. I worked with my horse as much as i could and i showed him as hard as i could. Mega, my horse, and i received 1st in a few events and 2nd in a couple. I also welded for my dads boss and he hired my right after and is paying for me to go to 3 other states for learning. I also know this is the very last time i will play 13 games of football on a high school field with the senior boys that i played with for the last four years. So i will play this year as hard as i can and with all the power, talent, and strength that i have. I also wear myself down this summer. I got up every morning at 5 to lift at the school and hen be to work at 7. I worked until 5pm and went back to the school and lifted. When i get home i have things that have to get done. Most nights i was in be by 11:30-12.
ReplyDeletethat's good about your job but you need to give your body a little more time than that to rest because one of these days it will catch up to you
Deletea time i made a deposit in my PBA was when i taped into my talents and went out for wrestling. a time i had a withdraw from my PBA was last year during wrestling i could have done better and lost weight faster and pushed myself harder but i didnt until like a couple weeks before wrestling was done. so this year i plan to push myself more and be ready before wrestling starts. i would say my PBA is healthy overall though because no matter what im always happy usually
ReplyDeleteA time i made a deposit into my PBA was when i "taped into my talents". I have alot of mental strength, i use that as my #1 talent. It takes strength to complete alot of tasks. Like last year when i lost my daddy to cancer, I wanted to give up on my whole junior year and just not try anymore. Then i thought about him and how disappointed in me he would have been. Then i gave it my all and finished the year off the best i could. That took more strength then i thought i had. I make one specific withdraw from my PBA all the time, i do wrestle with depression and anxiety alot. Which then causes me to have a pretty low self-esteem at times. Then my mental strength comes in and i push myself past it and move on. Almost always i do make large deposits in my PBA to make up for my withdraws and boost my self esteem. There will always be bumps in the road, but what matters is how you deal with them. I think that over all i have a pretty healthy PBA because no matter what i find a way to be happy, encourage myself, and find the positive side to the situation.
ReplyDeleteA time i made a deposit was when i was told myself i needed to be more honest. One day at home and my sister was going to hangout with one of her friends when she really wasn't and she told me not to tell, but i couldn't lie to my mom and I told her the truth and i felt happy about it. Even though my sister did get in trouble. A time i made a withdrawal is almost all the time i wear myself out. I was so worried one day my friend wouldn't talk to me over the summer that i wasn't getting enough sleep and so i was being sleep deprived and so i would always sleep half the day away. I would say my PBA is healthy now that i have been more careful about myself and making sure i get the rest I need and also to be more honest and not lie or keep secrets.
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